Gender Inequality - Female Gamers

Half of the world is populated by women, yet the majority of gamers are men. Everyone has been asking that question and no one knows why. Perhaps its the way they are treated that turns them away from gaming. Maybe its the way that women are portrayed in games. Since I've already talked about it in my previous gender inequality post, I'm going to focus on the female gamer instead.

Most people when playing games are civil to the opposite gender. However there are people who are so insecure that when a women plays a video game they feel like their boy's club of video games is being threatened and needs to attack that person. Whats wrong with a female gamer? Nothing. If no one said anything would you have known? I play with women all the time and I don't notice a different between men or women. They can both suck, they can both be good, they can both be funny or stupid as all hell. Why hate on them? The most common excuse is that they are attention whoring whiny people who won't shut up. Newsflash, just because they are popular does not mean they are attention whoring. Do not be envious of someone who is more popular than you. If a man gets a lot of attention of everyone around him does anyone bat an eyelash? No. He's the cool dude. If a women gets attention its because she has breasts.

Another I get is that women are bad at playing games. As if being a certain gender means you automatically suck at a game. If someone is Asian does that mean they are good at RTS? If they are Brazilian does that mean they are terrible at everything? Fuck no. People often whine that everyone has to help the girl and teach her everything because she sucks. Ever had that friend or guildie who just don't know what to do? Yeah you teach him. Does that mean he's a girl? Fuck no. Everyone is new once and just because you aren't new now doesn't mean weren't before. I know girls who can kick people's ass consistently in games.

Then there are people who attack them just because they are a girl. They rather all the games they play be a huge sausage fest. I've played many games with girls and theres always one or two angry people. I've once played a game of HoN and our team was doing well. But when one random teammate talked into her microphone and revealed that she was a girl, a guy on our team flipped out. Apparently the thought of having to play with the opposite sex infuriated him so much he had to purposely lose the game. For the entirety of the match he did nothing but call her out by calling her a fat pig or stupid cunt because the only girls playing video games are ugly and fat. Why? I know girls who play games that are normal. No one else spoke up about it. Only me and another person did and the guy responded with "you must be dating the fat cunt because you won't stop bitching about it. Hey is it worth it? Was it worth it? Dating this ugly fat bitch so you can get your dick sucked."

Unfortunately thats not uncommon. Revealing you are a girl will get people messaging you telling you "tits or gtfo" and many other comments. The worst part is no one is doing anything about it. ANYTHING. In fact most people believe its innocent and that its part of the community. Reread that last sentence. Remember that shitty thing that happened awhile ago on some shitty Capcom show that no ones ever heard about but the sexual harassment shit that came out of it was bigger than the show itself? According to them, sexual harassment is part of the fighting game community.

In almost every game I've played with I've played with girls at some point. Sometimes they sit on my friend list for months before they reveal to me they were a girl. Sure. Do I assume they are male or female before they reveal anything? No not really. To me everyone online is just a empty husk. Once they share information that gets filled in more and more. I've met with both men and women from online games offline in real life and they are as normal as the next person. If we can get along in real life, why the hate when we meet online? I have been told by many people that they always thought I was a girl when they first meet me online. Somehow its the way I talk and my general niceness that gives off a vibe that I'm a girl. When people ask, I tell them I'm a guy. What would happen if I had answered differently? I actually gave that a test. What I gotten was people hating me for no reason than the fact that they thought I was a girl. One high school kid hated me so much he refused to talk to me or group with me or have anything to do with me.

There are people who go "I'm just trolling man." Why? You don't really hate women you just pretend you hate women? So you think its funny to pretend to hate women? I think at that point deep down you hate women and you are just lying to yourself. Trolling is something I don't get anyways. Why the fuck do you want to purposely go out of your way to mess with someone? Oh look you're a chick I'm going to go out of my way to make your life miserable because it makes me laugh. At this point you're a misogynist. Don't even bother trying to defend yourself.

Now recently, a woman tried make a series of Youtube videos talking about the common tropes of video game women. I'm actually interested because I've been talking about that for the longest time. However instead of being welcomed by the rest of the gaming community she is attacked verbally with hateful comments of sexual violence. Her youtube and wikipedia page was vandalized as well. More information can be found on the link below.

http://www.rockpapershotgun.com/2012/06/13/tropes-vs-women-in-video-games-vs-the-internet/

Why did the hate start anyways? From what I gathered. There was a group of people on 4chan who thought what she was planning to do was so stupid they had to rally up a bunch of people and attack her. Their reasoning? Men are also portrayed in certain roles. The difference is its a power fantasy. Men are portrayed as powerful while women are portrayed in less than ideal roles. Though thats not always the case thats often the case though. These people were so enraged at the thought of a woman challenging this they attacked her BEFORE she even made a video. What? Why don't you wait for her side of the argument before you attack her. Their argument is "lol this bitch should shut up men are sexualized too." Then they decided to make a kickstarter to gather up money to make a tropes vs men on video games and then donate all the money to charity (or use it for beer money) and make a video about it because they want to "show women they don't need to get money to make videos."

However, during the whole attack the person who was making the videos handled everything extremely well. She didn't run away and let the mob silence her. She didn't attack them back. She talked to the admins to get stuff back to normal. Left the comments on to prove her point of sexism in video games. And because of all that she got a huge amount of media attention and completely broke her goal of $6000. The funniest part is if they didn't attack her openly like that she probably would never had gotten that much raised. Some people are just stupid.

Gender Inequality - Character Gender Roles

Video games have always been male dominated as I have already said before in another post. Its pretty chauvinistic but its nothing like the pure shit that is anime. Its the most misogynistic shit ever and anyone should be ashamed for watching it. But moving on from that video games seems to be doing better and better. Maybe more women started picking up games or maybe more women are developing games. There are always talk about how badly women are portrayed in video games yet no one really knows what makes a strong character. Not even the developers that made the character.

Men in video games have more variations. You have the hyper masculine tough guy like Duke Nukem and any other action game. You have the suave smart guy in like L.A. Noire, fat bald angry guy NPCs, feminine wimpy main males in JRPGs, and even homosexual guys like in Shadow Hearts. Theres a huge variation from main characters to NPCs. There are a lot more that I haven't said but then we get to women in video games. They all have one thing in common. They are always attractive first, then you add whatever else next. This holds true in all forms of media too. Watch a movie, watch the TV, look at a magazine. Anything. Just like how minorities aren't properly portrayed, women aren't properly portrayed either. You don't see many minorities in video games. Whens the last time you saw an Asian in a video game outside an Asian themed game that wasn't a martial artist or old wise man? What about a Hispanic that wasn't a gang banger? Like women, when is the last time you saw a non attractive women in a video game outside of background characters?

Women are used for sex appeal for the gamer. You see chain mail bikinis on women who somehow magically have more defense than a man wearing a full plate armor. Yet somehow those swords that stab her exposed flesh are magically deflected. Impractical? Fuck that show more cleavage. Zoom in on that ass. Put on some bondage gear. I already said a lot about this before. There is no need to go into more detail. Sure you get the occasional shirtless male with ripped abs but those are uncommon because they don't want the player base to start feeling insecure about their sexuality.

Men are usually the main characters and women are usually forced into the supportive role in games. Sometimes women are the main characters and men are the support but a lot of developers say they don't like to make games with a female main character because their fans complain about having to play a girl. But that is mostly because anything meant to appeal to both genders are male. A girl can be a tomboy an be socially accepted but as soon as a parent finds out their son is doing or watching anything girly they automatically assume he caught the gay and will put an end to it right away. Society says men have to be manly. And because of that, we have mostly male leads in video games. And since the lead is a male, the support roles are shoved onto females. Then you have the love interest role and the damsel in distress role.

A few games let you play as either gender. For example in Mass Effect you are able to choose a male or female Commander Shepard. People argue that the female Shepard is nothing more than a chick with a dick and shouldn't even be considered in any discussion about characters. Why? I thought feminism was all about equality. If both the male and female versions are doing exactly 100% the same thing minus the romance whats wrong with it really? But Mass Effect also has the worst portrayal of women in gaming. The Asari, an all female race of prostitutes and sluts. Then theres Jack a crazy psycho angry bitch you have to cure her broken life with your penis. Miranda who is the genetically engineered superhuman perfect sex doll who you cure her of her insecurities with your penis. And Tali the naive waif who you cure her of her shyness with your penis. Then Kelly your secretary who you can sexually harass and then molest with your penis. Basically everything else was badly done in the game.

Then there are the "great female characters" like Alyx Vance from Half Life 2 that men claim to be the best. However almost all women agree she is terrible. I have never played that game so I cannot comment but most agree that shes completely dependent on the main character and she just magically falls in love with him without any development. She also becomes a damsel in distress. Just because its a supportive character doesn't mean that she is automatically bad. Just because she plays the role of a damsel in distress doesn't mean shes bad. They don't need to be non feminine to be a good character either. What they need is character depth.

As long as they don't go into this.

Lets take a look at Aveline from Dragon Age 2. Yes I know the game is a piece of shit but she isn't. She is probably one of the most likable female characters in video games. She is well developed, she is a strong female character. She has her own life, her husband died early in the game but that doesn't stop her. She does what she feels is right and isn't afraid to voice her opinions and do what she sets out to do. Eventually she becomes the captain of the guard. She watches over you like a guardian would but at the same time she isn't without flaw. She has a crush on a subordinate but doesn't have the courage to do it even though she is strong when it comes to anything but love. It becomes downright embarrassing yet a little cute at the same time. Eventually she overcomes that hurdle and captures her love. I also like to point out she cannot be romanced by the main character. People go "oh shes ugly she looks manly she doesn't show any cleavage blah blah blah." So what? Do they have to be attractive to be female? Because of that she is overlooked a lot.

Just because it is a damsel in distress or even a supportive character, it doesn't mean they should be devoid of any personality or development. A lot of JRPG's do this. You get weak girls as casters and the males are hotheaded fighters. Most characters are one dimensional and are basically defined by one particular trait. Persona 4 I thought did a good job on the main characters. Yes the game was terrible like Dragon Age 2 but the main characters grow, they have their own lives they do their own shit. They have their own goals and own opinions. Which I thought was quite progressive for a JRPG. But outside the main characters its just horrible.

Games like Skyrim have both men and women in all roles. Gender does not stop you from doing anything. There are Jarls that are women. They can lead, they don't whine in their keeps waiting for a man to do their job. Despite what feminist may or may not agree, you don't have to be ugly, you don't have to be doing a usually male dominated role, and you don't have to be devoid of any sexual attraction to the main character to be a strong female character. One example is Fall-From-Grace from Planescape Torment. She's a succubus, and right away alarm bells go off your head. But she isn't.as bad as you would think. She's a chaste succubus who owns a brothel for intellectual lust over physical lust. She has a dairy that she always holds which you cannot read or get rid of.

There are motherly female characters to female characters who relies on the male lead. That is fine. She can be a prostitute, a mother, a warrior, an independent woman anything you want and still be a strong character. It's not that she has to fulfill these roles to be a good character, it's that she is a good character who doesn't sacrifice these roles in order to appear interesting. It bolsters her character, not defines it. Roles don't make a difference in character. Hell Bayonetta is like the epitome of everything wrong in a video character and she's a strong character. Sure I find her annoying as shit and over the top but I won't deny that she is a strong character.

So why all the fuss about strong female characters in video games? There are tons of weak male characters right? Yes but there are also a ton of strong male characters. Strong female characters are a rare breed and when people see it they notice it. And when its lacking people don't bat an eyelash.